Abortion is not the best option in dealing with an immediate problem. Often times, its effects will haunt the person who did it with guilt. However, there are some rare cases that abortion can be the best option most especially when the life of the mother is in danger.
Are you against abortion or pro-abortion? Each side has their own reasons of their action but in the light of God's word, we are told that abortion is an act of killing. Let's us discover why many choose abortion instead. I believe that abortion is not the best choice.
Why many choose abortion?
For some, abortion might be the easiest way to solve of whatever immediate problem they are facing. They are the rape and incest victim, some are just considering it as a mode of birth-control, while others consider it as an option to save the life the mother when conception put her in danger. In rare case, abortion serves as a mercy killing when a fetus is not normal.
The Anti-Abortion Reasoning
Christian believes that abortion is an act of killing and is against the teaching of God. As a Christian, I believe that life is a gift from God and is to be valued. A fetus is considering already a person since he or she has a fully functional organ and his or her heart already beat. Often times, that mother who aborted her baby suffer regrets and has guilt feelings that haunts her for a long time.
Find Peace and Forgiveness In God
Maybe you have done abortion in the past and you are guilty of killing your innocent baby. God still loves you and if you come to Him and ask for forgiveness, He will give you peace. He will forgive you completely.
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Tuesday, September 28, 2010
Monday, September 27, 2010
How To Put Back The Spark Into Your Love Life
Sometimes boredom comes in each relationship but this does not mean that you and your partner do not love each other. It only means you need find new and fresh ways to express your love. Discovering roadblocks to romance and finding ways to cope each of them is the key to put back the spark into your love life.
Do you feel bored with your relationship? Don't worry, it does not mean you don't love your partner but it only means you both need to express your love in new, creative and fresh ways. There are several roadblocks to romance that you need to overcome to put back the spark into your love life again. Many thought that marriage is the end of courtship and dating but a healthy marriage life means the beginning of new and more fantastic life together with your partner.
Unchartered Territory
We are taught about the importance of creativity to our work and recreation but not to our relationship. Don't stop courting your partner even after marriage. Find some new ways to express your love that you have not done before.
Risk Factor
Yes, there is a risk involved in being creative. We are not comfortable of doing something new and sometimes it turns out to be a failure. Like for instance, you cook a special meal for your wife but the taste of your finish menu is not good so your wife ate only a few tablespoons. Because of this experience you are afraid to try again. But although there is risk involved by being creative and sometimes failure is the result yet your loved one will notice your effort for expressing your love to him or her.
The Rut Mentality
Some men believed that their wife understand their love to them without reassuring them of their love. Women need to be reaffirmed of their partner's love. You must see to it that your partner feels your love often.
Overcoming The Roadblocks
Now we need to discuss how to overcome these roadblocks. First you need to plan some ways wherein you can express your love in new fresh and creative ways. You need to plan two ways incase your first plan fails. Make it a surprise event to add enjoyment. Second, schedule this event far enough so that you have more time to plan and work out the details. Third, avoid the traditional at all costs. Don't do a routine event but instead try something new to both of you. And lastly, ask others for ideas.
Do you feel bored with your relationship? Don't worry, it does not mean you don't love your partner but it only means you both need to express your love in new, creative and fresh ways. There are several roadblocks to romance that you need to overcome to put back the spark into your love life again. Many thought that marriage is the end of courtship and dating but a healthy marriage life means the beginning of new and more fantastic life together with your partner.
Unchartered Territory
We are taught about the importance of creativity to our work and recreation but not to our relationship. Don't stop courting your partner even after marriage. Find some new ways to express your love that you have not done before.
Risk Factor
Yes, there is a risk involved in being creative. We are not comfortable of doing something new and sometimes it turns out to be a failure. Like for instance, you cook a special meal for your wife but the taste of your finish menu is not good so your wife ate only a few tablespoons. Because of this experience you are afraid to try again. But although there is risk involved by being creative and sometimes failure is the result yet your loved one will notice your effort for expressing your love to him or her.
The Rut Mentality
Some men believed that their wife understand their love to them without reassuring them of their love. Women need to be reaffirmed of their partner's love. You must see to it that your partner feels your love often.
Overcoming The Roadblocks
Now we need to discuss how to overcome these roadblocks. First you need to plan some ways wherein you can express your love in new fresh and creative ways. You need to plan two ways incase your first plan fails. Make it a surprise event to add enjoyment. Second, schedule this event far enough so that you have more time to plan and work out the details. Third, avoid the traditional at all costs. Don't do a routine event but instead try something new to both of you. And lastly, ask others for ideas.
Thursday, September 23, 2010
How To Raise Your Children
Many people are illiterate. Even in the US shows that 13 percent of all 17 years old lack the basic skills of reading they need to function daily. Most of these people end up unemployed or underemployed since they cannot fill out a simple application form. People who will never know what it is to read a newspaper or a Bible for themselves.
But you can make a difference – especially in the lives of the children whom you know. These are the seven steps to follow to improve your children’s reading skills and instill in them a love of reading.
Read to your children. This is the most effective way to get your children to read. Not only are the preschool children benefited but also the school-age children as well. Set a regular time where you can read aloud maybe just before bed but don’t make it too long. Ten to 15 minutes will do. Take time to explain new words and pictures too.
Makes book available. Make sure you have a lot of books and magazine for your children to read. Give them to your kids during Christmas, birthdays or special occasions. Make it available anywhere inside your house or in the car. You must have a book shelf and a reading lamp as well. If you can’t afford to buy new books then why not buy it from a garage sales and secondhand bookstores that offer bargains.
Visit the library. Plan frequent visits- not only for books but books on cassette, puzzles,CDs, and every art. If possible talk to the librarian and ask for any help and recommendations.
Be a good example. If your children see you reading then they will most likely follow your example.
Control your Kids Viewing. Television often diminishes child’s creativity and stifles his or her imaginations so set some limits. You don’t have to get rid of your TV entirely though some have benefited from this. But together with your kids, list the shows you want to watch. And make sure the TV’s turned off the rest of the time.
Reward reading. Help your child to have a goal – whether of the number of books he or she wants to read or the amount of time he or she wishes to spend reading. Reward them for meeting their goals. Money for books might be one. Or your child may want to have a nice pizza treat. The best reward you can give to your child is attention.
Support reading program in school. Many schools have reading incentive programs or contests. If your child’s doesn’t have, consider starting one.
Finding time to read with your child and encouraging them to read is not easy, but it’s worth the effort. Reading opens doors to the wonders of the world; you ca visit anywhere, learn anything, and meet anyone through books. When we teach our children a passion for reading, we give them wings to soar to reach their dreams.
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But you can make a difference – especially in the lives of the children whom you know. These are the seven steps to follow to improve your children’s reading skills and instill in them a love of reading.
Read to your children. This is the most effective way to get your children to read. Not only are the preschool children benefited but also the school-age children as well. Set a regular time where you can read aloud maybe just before bed but don’t make it too long. Ten to 15 minutes will do. Take time to explain new words and pictures too.
Makes book available. Make sure you have a lot of books and magazine for your children to read. Give them to your kids during Christmas, birthdays or special occasions. Make it available anywhere inside your house or in the car. You must have a book shelf and a reading lamp as well. If you can’t afford to buy new books then why not buy it from a garage sales and secondhand bookstores that offer bargains.
Visit the library. Plan frequent visits- not only for books but books on cassette, puzzles,CDs, and every art. If possible talk to the librarian and ask for any help and recommendations.
Be a good example. If your children see you reading then they will most likely follow your example.
Control your Kids Viewing. Television often diminishes child’s creativity and stifles his or her imaginations so set some limits. You don’t have to get rid of your TV entirely though some have benefited from this. But together with your kids, list the shows you want to watch. And make sure the TV’s turned off the rest of the time.
Reward reading. Help your child to have a goal – whether of the number of books he or she wants to read or the amount of time he or she wishes to spend reading. Reward them for meeting their goals. Money for books might be one. Or your child may want to have a nice pizza treat. The best reward you can give to your child is attention.
Support reading program in school. Many schools have reading incentive programs or contests. If your child’s doesn’t have, consider starting one.
Finding time to read with your child and encouraging them to read is not easy, but it’s worth the effort. Reading opens doors to the wonders of the world; you ca visit anywhere, learn anything, and meet anyone through books. When we teach our children a passion for reading, we give them wings to soar to reach their dreams.
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